Life Transitions

Secrets & lies

Hiding stuff?

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Web Wisdom

Secrets and lies in a relationship are like hiding things in the shadows.

Shame thrives in secrecy and often out of that secrecy, addictions are born.

It's important to be open and honest, just as you'd want from your partner.

Imagine it as a foundation of trust. Keeping secrets or telling lies can erode that foundation.

Open communication builds trust and understanding, ensuring a healthier and stronger connection where both partners feel safe, secure and valued.

Own up and come clean

Your Toolbox

Tips for reducing porn use:

-Tell someone about it. Shame thrives in secrecy.

-Don't go to bed with your phone. charge it in a different room and buy a stand alone alarm clock.

-Focus on healthy lifestyle habits such as good nutrition,sleep and regular movement. If you look after yourself, you're less likely to feel tired, hungry and emotionally fragile.

-Engage regularly in a passion that nourishes you emotionally.

-Get an accountability budy. Find someone you tust and open up to them with full honesty. Arrange regular phone calls for support.

-Have a go-to alternative when you feel the urge to consume. This could be phone g a friend, going out for a walk, or finding your kids and giving g them a cuddle.

Podcast & Youtube Links

How to spot a liar

Telling your secrets can set you free

Author's Opinion

Happy Mind Happy Life - Dr Chattejee 2022

The hidden porn epidemic.

Pornography is a subject that makes people feel deeply uncomfortable. But our discomfort in discussing it hides the fact that it has become a major problem.

The internet has given us access to all the titillating we could possibly imagine, and more. Every sexual curiosity or desire can be satisfied in seconds.

First it can make us unhapy with our relationships. The simple reason is that pornography is making our perception of what is normal when it comes to see and gives us unrealistic expectations of our partners.

And it results in many people feeling inadequate and notable, as they find it impossible to physically compete with what they see online.

Without wanting to, we become less contentwith our partners and less content with ourselves.

Porn use also pushes u out of alignment - very few people feel good about themselves afterwards.

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Updated: November 2023

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