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Local Dads

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When we talk to dads, they all agree that the most significant responsibility for a father is to set a good example for your children so that they can model your positive traits and actions.

Studies have shown that when fathers are affectionate and supportive, it greatly affects a child's mental and social development. It also instills an overall sense of well-being and self confidence

Many guys that vist BigJakeConnects do not have children or might not even be married. The big thing is that all of us need some form of social support and interaction with other men.

BigJakeConnects encourages all our visitors to seek out oppertunites to connect socially with men in their local communities.

This is an active Meetup.com link to our local activities

Please sign up and join the group before our next event. That way we can keep you in the loop by email when new events gets posted.

Meetup.com also has many other activities that might be of interest to you so look around their website.

https://www.meetup.com/bigjake-connects-meetup-group/ For more informations or if you need to contact our team:

www.BigJakeConnect.org/society

info@bigjakeconnect.org

Your Toolbox

https://chilliwack-fraserhealthrural.test-pathwaysbc.ca/programs/860

https://www.comserv.bc.ca/daring-dads/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/fathering-in-america-whats-a-dad-supposed-to-do

Podcast & Youtube Links

Why Dads Matter https://dadcentral.ca/

Dads get depressed too https://postpartum.org/podcast/beyond-postpartum-ep-6/

BigJake's Thoughts

We have created a social connecting oppertunity, where men can just hang out and chill. Many events will have some active ellement so there will be some physical and some mental health benifit to everyone. The focus is on spending time together and sharing stories or even just a cup of coffee.

We use the Meetup.com platform so guys can find and connect to other events that might be of interest. The whole idea is to get off the couch and meet other guys to just do stuff. As long as its clean and legal and does not involve alchol, drugs or pornography, then we can all enjoy the time together.

Many of the guys are around 45 - 65 years old, but we have no age limit. The more the merrier. We each have something to give and we each have something to learn, as long as we are open to that idea.

We will test how this Meetup.com platform works for our needs. Then, later we might also include a Facebook page if that is what the group wants.

Author's Opinion 1

Extracts from: Why Dads Need Social Connections -By Keegan Albaugh

According to a survey completed in the United Kingdom by YouGov, a global public opinion company, "around 18 percent of men said they did not consider themselves to have close friends." Thirty-two percent stated they did not even have a best friend.

And, typically, dads start off without much support prior to the birth of a child. In a 2015 Massachusetts General Hospital survey of more the 900 expectant fathers, one-third of the respondents "answered 'nobody' when they were asked who they could go to for support and information about fathering skills." Although the numbers are alarming, I'm not surprised. In our society, men are conditioned to bottle up their feelings and mask their vulnerabilities. But men need opportunities to connect, share and listen.

So, what can we do?

Search for a dad group. They may be few and far between, but search your community for any dad groups or clubs.

Find a Meetup or Facebook group around a specific interest. Have a hobby? Search for groups of people with like-minded interests. Connecting over a shared interest can lead to lasting friendships

Connect with your neighbors. Bake some cookies and bring them to a neighbor you don't really know, or just spend more time grilling on your front lawn. A lot of times, we live around awesome people but don't really take the time to connect.

Volunteer for a local cause. What are you passionate about? Chances are, if you volunteer with an organization with a mission that aligns with your beliefs, you'll connect with people who share similar ideals.

Author's Opinion 2

Extract from Movember Canada

“Being a man of more words isn’t about dialing up the banter. It’s about carving out space for meaningful chats about the bigger stuff in life. From talking about the kids, the bills, a new job or a setback – the right conversation can make all the difference to a man who might be struggling.”

Extract from Casey Palmer, CaseyPalmer.com

“What I think the modern dad is really starting to understand is that we can’t parent our children alone. Just like moms, we need communities who we can go to when we need to unburden our souls and who can offer advice when we can’t overcome issues with our skills alone. Being lone wolves has done so much more harm than good for countless generations of men before us—it’s time that we break the cycle.”

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Updated: November 2023